Why Women Like Men Who Wear Dresses - GEN

Why Women Like Men Who Wear Dresses - GEN - GEN

Posted: 17 Nov 2020 12:00 AM PST

Vogue didn't put Styles in a dress in order to emasculate men; they did it because it's hot

Harry Styles at the Met Gala on May 6, 2019. Photo: Matt Winkelmeyer/MG19/Getty Images

With over 1,000 Americans dying every day of Covid, the president of the United States refusing to concede an election he lost, and the West Coast continuing to burn, there is no shortage of pressing issues to be outraged over. That's why I find it so strange that conservatives have focused their energy and ire on perhaps the most innocuous event of the year: a male celebrity in a dress.

Musician Harry Styles appears on Vogue's December cover wearing a Gucci gown — the first man to ever be featured solo on the front of the iconic fashion publication. Styles told Vogue, "you can never be overdressed" and celebrated how gender norms are changing around clothing: "What's really exciting is that all of these lines are just kind of crumbling away… anytime you're putting barriers up in your own life, you're just limiting yourself."

What many see as stylish fun, though, members of the right view as a feminist conspiracy to weaken men. In response to Styles' cover, conservative author Candace Owens claimed that the "steady feminization" of American men was part of a plot to bring back Marxism, tweeting that we need to "bring back manly men."

Sometimes we just want to see sexy people in beautiful clothes.

Podcaster Ben Shapiro also saw the dress as an attack on men, calling the cover a "referendum on masculinity" and an attempt by the left to "feminize men." Pundit Erick Erickson even linked the image to incoming president Joe Biden: "Biden gets elected by promising a return to normal," he tweeted. "Then the left goes all in on men in dresses."

But Vogue didn't put Styles in a gown on their cover because of some nefarious agenda to emasculate American men; they did it because it's hot. Some of the country's most iconic sex symbols are known for their gender-bending fashion — think David Bowie, Prince, or Grace Jones. Sometimes we just want to see sexy people in beautiful clothes.

And if conservatives are upset over Styles' gorgeous gown, they're really not going to like one of the newest trends on TikTok: young women dressing their boyfriends up in maid costumes. This new generation of women aren't just open to boundary-breaking men, they're actively seeking them out. They want men in skirts, men in makeup — they want men secure enough to have fun with their look rather than the anxious masculinity of gym selfies and frat bros.

And men are picking up on that desire: In fact, there are so many straight young men donning nail polish and skirts online to get female attention that there's been a corresponding backlash of videos explaining that men in makeup can be just as misogynist as men in khakis.

In short, this is a lot more about eroticism than a plot to dismantle patriarchy. (If only!) Yes, of course there's a link between feminism and men feeling more free to wear clothing that's traditionally feminine. Just as it makes sense that women might find a man more attractive if he doesn't view traditional femininity as somehow less than or beneath him.

Conservatives are looking for political conspiracies where there are none. They're so obsessed with traditional gender roles — from magazine covers to their attack on trans people — that they're unable to see when a dress is just a dress.

Formal Dress Code Decoded - 5 Must-Have Formal Dresses for Your Wardrobe - Film Daily

Posted: 12 Dec 2020 08:24 AM PST

The prevailing idea is that formal get-ups don't really give much space for being spontaneous and creative with fashion. All of us must have felt like the formal dress code is restrictive at some point. That is why it gets very difficult to choose the right dress that would be a compliment to the curves and make you look sophisticated at the same time for an office event.

While your wardrobe may be full of trendy outfits, the struggle to pick out the perfect formal gown is real all the time. Here's a little something for women who wish to dress their best for the next office party; 5 styles that are evergreen for a formal attire:

Sheath Dresses with Modest Necklines

Let's start off with a popular choice- sheath dresses, by default, are the ultimate choice for a formal get-up. The flare isn't too much but neither is the tightness- it's just a perfect balance of everything which does justice to your curves and makes you look elegant.

To top it off, if your dress has a modest or high neckline, it undoubtedly becomes an office-appropriate choice. You can go with a little bling or keep it simple with light coloured fabrics and subtle embroidery work. If the drama is important, choose something with a sweep train finish.

Here are the amazing long formal dresses from the collection of formal dresses 2021:

Every woman should have at least these five dresses in their wardrobe so they can take on any formal dress code.

Solid Coloured A-Line Gowns

It goes without saying that A-line dresses are the go-to outfits for everyone. They are safe yet extremely stylish and won't ever go out of fashion. For ladies who wish to dress up simply and maintain a formal tone, solid-coloured A-line dresses are what they need. Choose something with a flattering but not too revealing neckline like off-shoulder or halter. Solid neutrals like black, white, navy blue or crimson are suggested.

These are the formal dresses for girls with flaring A-line skirts that would catch your attention:

Shimmering Form-Fitting Gowns with Long-Sleeves

Who says you can't look dazzling in a formal gown? With the right choice of fabric and design, everything is possible. You can either go for sequined fabrics but don't choose something with a lot of flashing colours as it can be too overpowering; or you can choose something with subtle beadwork that makes you shine bright all night.

The form-fitting style will accentuate your curves and the long sleeves are nothing but modest and formal.

The formal dresses by designer brands available online will impress every voguish woman out there:

Asymmetrical High-Slit Gowns

Want to add a unique spin to your fashionable formal attire? Try out designer high-slit gowns with asymmetrical necklines. They are bold and definitely make a very strong fashion statement. To keep it formal, go with a single colour. Make sure the slit isn't too much revealing but just gives a "peek a boo" view of the legs.

Get a good deal on these formal dresses for ladies:

Embroidered Knee-Length Midis with Sheath Skirts

If you are not the biggest fan of evening gowns, there are other ways of dressing up for an office party. Knee-length midi sheath dresses are the classics of formal attire. You can go for floral embroidery, multicoloured prints or colour contrasts – basically anything that creates an elegant and interesting visual.

We're sure that these short formal dresses would be the next all-time favourites:

Choosing the right outfit for a formal event is only half the story; your accessories and makeup have an important part to play. Keep it low-tone with colour coordinating simple accessories such as bracelets, anklets and stud earrings.

Happy shopping!